Is anyone paying attention to the Kavanaugh hearings?
As a women with men in her life whom I love and respect I’m outraged by the thought that a man’s life and career can be destroyed so easily based on allegations that have no proof, no evidence, and for which the timing is so very obviously politically motivated. This is a sickening hijack of the me too movement for political gain. Allegations do not equal guilt and not every woman should be believed over every man. The precedence that is being set by those who call for the destruction of the principals on which our justice system is based is extremely dangerous.
Out of the entire hearing yesterday, one sentence from Senator Graham stood out to me as the embodiment of the frightening sociopolitical climate that we are living in today. He told Judge Kavanaugh that if he was looking for a ‘fair process then he came to the wrong town at the wrong time.’ Dianne Feinstein and other congressional democrats should be censured for their perversion of this process and for fueling the fire of our current national divide.
Is anyone paying attention to what is happening here?
Out of the entire hearing yesterday, one sentence from Senator Graham stood out to me as the embodiment of the frightening sociopolitical climate that we are living in today. He told Judge Kavanaugh that if he was looking for a ‘fair process then he came to the wrong town at the wrong time.’ Dianne Feinstein and other congressional democrats should be censured for their perversion of this process and for fueling the fire of our current national divide.
Is anyone paying attention to what is happening here?
One question is to be asked. Is there justice in America?
We know from email non-investigations to witch hunts that there is no equal justice left but what about justice?
Can a man be “convicted” based solely on the unsubstantiated and uncollaborated accusation of another?
If you think they can, you must answer the question as no.
We know from email non-investigations to witch hunts that there is no equal justice left but what about justice?
Can a man be “convicted” based solely on the unsubstantiated and uncollaborated accusation of another?
If you think they can, you must answer the question as no.
I think the truth of the incident is somewhere between the two extremes .
I think it is very possible that a drunken college party fool sloppily tries to escalate action with an unwilling participant .... and did not remember this behavior/incident, particularly 30 years later
And she herself reported that he was unsuccessful in his attempt. She pushed him off her and removed herself from the situation - good for her!
And while I can see how she could feel angered annoyed and creeped out by the situation ....was she truly ‘violated’? Still traumatized by the memory 30 years later? Come on now...
Yes the guy probably is a jerk. The way he’s conducted himself in these proceedings seems to support my opinion.
But I don’t think this incident holds enough weight .... especially 30 years later - to damage someone’s career.
It might be a different story if the girl had reported the event so there was supporting documentation of her claim of the severity of the incident. But she doesn’t have anything to support her words.
This is now a ‘he said/she said’ argument which shouldn’t hold up in formal proceedings.
Accusations void of evidence being seriously considered sets a dangerous precedent and throws our judicial system back to the 1600s - we can’t have that
I am no fan of this Kavanaugh guy but don’t think he should be prevented from his seat - at least not in this manner
I think it is very possible that a drunken college party fool sloppily tries to escalate action with an unwilling participant .... and did not remember this behavior/incident, particularly 30 years later
And she herself reported that he was unsuccessful in his attempt. She pushed him off her and removed herself from the situation - good for her!
And while I can see how she could feel angered annoyed and creeped out by the situation ....was she truly ‘violated’? Still traumatized by the memory 30 years later? Come on now...
Yes the guy probably is a jerk. The way he’s conducted himself in these proceedings seems to support my opinion.
But I don’t think this incident holds enough weight .... especially 30 years later - to damage someone’s career.
It might be a different story if the girl had reported the event so there was supporting documentation of her claim of the severity of the incident. But she doesn’t have anything to support her words.
This is now a ‘he said/she said’ argument which shouldn’t hold up in formal proceedings.
Accusations void of evidence being seriously considered sets a dangerous precedent and throws our judicial system back to the 1600s - we can’t have that
I am no fan of this Kavanaugh guy but don’t think he should be prevented from his seat - at least not in this manner
I know 4 women who were sexually "assaulted" in their lives. With three of the four, the incidents happened when they were in their early teens The first had a older teenage family friend expose himself to her and masturbated to climax. There was no physical contact. The second and third had physical contact with their assailants in the form of fellatio. In both cases the male was older teenage relative. If I recall correctly, the second woman was only assaulted once, the third had repeated contact over several months. The fourth was beaten and raped after a man broke into her home. She was 18-19 at the time.
Only the fourth woman contacted the police (the man was convicted and sent to prison). The other three woman have NEVER said anything to their parents (or any other family member) about the incidents, despite that with two of them it's been nearly 40 years since assault. For the third, it's probably been 25 years or so.
Do I trust these women, implicitly.
Only the fourth woman contacted the police (the man was convicted and sent to prison). The other three woman have NEVER said anything to their parents (or any other family member) about the incidents, despite that with two of them it's been nearly 40 years since assault. For the third, it's probably been 25 years or so.
Do I trust these women, implicitly.
Never has there been a time to really just stick to our principles. That means there has to be a presumption of innocence. There has to be supporting evidence and facts. The fact that this was in HS and so long ago does not actually support it ever happening.
Also this is not a referendum on #metoo. This is a single case. Kavanaugh is not responsible for what other men have done.
This is not just a job interview but a referendum on Kavanaugh's life. This is will affect how people see him and his career prospects. So it is important to get this right.
We need to ignore all the opinions and concentrate on the facts, no matter how much we don't know. We must first choose not to do harm.
What is telling for me, is that Leland Kaiser, the only other girls at the party, her lifelong friend, says that it never happened and she has never met Kavanaugh. She does not have a dog in the fight, so why would she lie?
Also, even though I felt the prosecutor that questioned Ford, even though she was too gentle and did not follow-up on a lot of topics, found a few things.
Ford claimed due to fear of flying that she could not fly to Washington and claimed that she would not make it on a flight to Australia, The prosecutor then asked her about her extensive vacation travel, and we found out she flew to French Polynesia. She clearly is not being entirely truthful. She did not recall many recent events. She has not turned over the therapist notes. Why hide these things? We do not know her background really. What is her motivation, they said civic duty. How naive do you have to be to believe that? But apparently we are supposed to believe her without evidence, or ANY specifics when all the supposed witnesses say it never happened. Do you believe that a woman cannot tell a compelling story that never happened?
Also this is not a referendum on #metoo. This is a single case. Kavanaugh is not responsible for what other men have done.
This is not just a job interview but a referendum on Kavanaugh's life. This is will affect how people see him and his career prospects. So it is important to get this right.
We need to ignore all the opinions and concentrate on the facts, no matter how much we don't know. We must first choose not to do harm.
What is telling for me, is that Leland Kaiser, the only other girls at the party, her lifelong friend, says that it never happened and she has never met Kavanaugh. She does not have a dog in the fight, so why would she lie?
Also, even though I felt the prosecutor that questioned Ford, even though she was too gentle and did not follow-up on a lot of topics, found a few things.
Ford claimed due to fear of flying that she could not fly to Washington and claimed that she would not make it on a flight to Australia, The prosecutor then asked her about her extensive vacation travel, and we found out she flew to French Polynesia. She clearly is not being entirely truthful. She did not recall many recent events. She has not turned over the therapist notes. Why hide these things? We do not know her background really. What is her motivation, they said civic duty. How naive do you have to be to believe that? But apparently we are supposed to believe her without evidence, or ANY specifics when all the supposed witnesses say it never happened. Do you believe that a woman cannot tell a compelling story that never happened?
Good to see ya Morgan. Here’s my take:
Anyone with half a brain should be able to see through all this for the farce that it was: Democrats wanting to win at all costs. They should have looked at Ford’s allegation and rejected it outright.
CNN had a focus group with a bunch of women earlier in the week asking for their opinions. One woman’s comments stood out to me in reference to the allegation against Kavanaugh:
‘who bought the alcohol for those kids?’
That’s right. Even if it did happen (which I don’t believe at all) it was a couple of kids. Shouldn’t even be relevant.
Anyone with half a brain should be able to see through all this for the farce that it was: Democrats wanting to win at all costs. They should have looked at Ford’s allegation and rejected it outright.
CNN had a focus group with a bunch of women earlier in the week asking for their opinions. One woman’s comments stood out to me in reference to the allegation against Kavanaugh:
‘who bought the alcohol for those kids?’
That’s right. Even if it did happen (which I don’t believe at all) it was a couple of kids. Shouldn’t even be relevant.
Kavanaugh was not on trial yesterday. This is part of his job interview. Being denied the opportunity to be a supreme court justice isn't the same as forcing someone to live a life without oxygen. Life does go on.
Quite often when employers take up references or just poke around to find info on a job candidate For example, my husband told me his former employer called him to find info on a job candidate who happened to work for his company. My husband didn't know the guy so of course it's quite clear that he was not listed as reference.
So this is an example of the dirty ways that employers treat mere mortals when they go look for a job.
In the case of Supreme court justice, it is not only a job for life --BK could be there for the next 40 years -- he will be making decisions that will affect how you and I and everyone else will live.
Quite often when employers take up references or just poke around to find info on a job candidate For example, my husband told me his former employer called him to find info on a job candidate who happened to work for his company. My husband didn't know the guy so of course it's quite clear that he was not listed as reference.
So this is an example of the dirty ways that employers treat mere mortals when they go look for a job.
In the case of Supreme court justice, it is not only a job for life --BK could be there for the next 40 years -- he will be making decisions that will affect how you and I and everyone else will live.
Our legal system is supposedly based on principles involving due process and a presumption of innocence.
It is the accuser's place to provide evidence to support her accusation. The defendant does not need to prove his innocence.
She has not produced one shred of evidence. To the contrary, people she's named as witnesses have denied knowing anything about the supposed event.
To those who say this is a mere job interview: No. A job interview is not an adversarial process where others are brought in to dispute your fitness for the job. A Senate hearing is an adversarial process, as is a criminal trial, and to deny that is to be inexcusably naive.
To those who say the Dems only want an FBI investigation, why didn't they want it back when Fienstein first got the letter? We all know why. When you have only one bullet, you save it for the last moment.
Which brings us to the inescapable conclusion. This is a witchhunt, a smear job done only for political purposes.
As an aside, I was a victim of a forcible groping when I was a senior in high school (which was not yesterday). I remember EVERYTHING about it. I can tell you the week, the month and the year of the event, where I was, how I got there, who else was there, and how I left. Yes, it was terrifying, which is why I remember every detail years later. I believe Dr. Ford, with her total lack of recollection of major details, is lying. If you are lying, you must be careful not to provide details which could be disproved.
As a final aside, many women have been victims of sexual assault. That has nothing whatsoever to do with whether BK sexually assaulted anyone. I don't know why people can't understand that simple logic.
I'm appalled at the hatred for men that I see pouring out of women. Don't they have husbands and sons and fathers and brothers? Don't we still believe all people are entitled to justice?
It is the accuser's place to provide evidence to support her accusation. The defendant does not need to prove his innocence.
She has not produced one shred of evidence. To the contrary, people she's named as witnesses have denied knowing anything about the supposed event.
To those who say this is a mere job interview: No. A job interview is not an adversarial process where others are brought in to dispute your fitness for the job. A Senate hearing is an adversarial process, as is a criminal trial, and to deny that is to be inexcusably naive.
To those who say the Dems only want an FBI investigation, why didn't they want it back when Fienstein first got the letter? We all know why. When you have only one bullet, you save it for the last moment.
Which brings us to the inescapable conclusion. This is a witchhunt, a smear job done only for political purposes.
As an aside, I was a victim of a forcible groping when I was a senior in high school (which was not yesterday). I remember EVERYTHING about it. I can tell you the week, the month and the year of the event, where I was, how I got there, who else was there, and how I left. Yes, it was terrifying, which is why I remember every detail years later. I believe Dr. Ford, with her total lack of recollection of major details, is lying. If you are lying, you must be careful not to provide details which could be disproved.
As a final aside, many women have been victims of sexual assault. That has nothing whatsoever to do with whether BK sexually assaulted anyone. I don't know why people can't understand that simple logic.
I'm appalled at the hatred for men that I see pouring out of women. Don't they have husbands and sons and fathers and brothers? Don't we still believe all people are entitled to justice?
As a woman with men in her life whom I love and respect, I also know that there are men who don't respect women and commit crimes against them. Those men are not like the men I love and respect.
As a woman with women in her life whom I love and respect, I also know that when women are abused and a crime is committed against them, it's is fundamentally wrong to let the men who committed the crimes against them escape liability and let them run a country and be in a position of power, showing that there is not a problem in what they did.
Hearings are there to discover the truth. Don't judge before it's judged. And don't throw rocks at women.
As a woman with women in her life whom I love and respect, I also know that when women are abused and a crime is committed against them, it's is fundamentally wrong to let the men who committed the crimes against them escape liability and let them run a country and be in a position of power, showing that there is not a problem in what they did.
Hearings are there to discover the truth. Don't judge before it's judged. And don't throw rocks at women.
Why do these women do this? Because they can, without repercussion.
All three of those women will have already had book deals lined up. Accusing men of things, with no proof required, is a lucrative business nowadays.
Want to do something about it? Stop voting for women and men that support this crap. Start with Kirsten Gillibrand.
All three of those women will have already had book deals lined up. Accusing men of things, with no proof required, is a lucrative business nowadays.
Want to do something about it? Stop voting for women and men that support this crap. Start with Kirsten Gillibrand.
Yes, she's full of shit.
At this point, regardless of what he did or did not do, I don't think they will be able to come up with anything, either way. However, I really don't think he has been honest about how much he drank in high school and college...which woukd mean he perjured himself...and they may wind up with plenty of evidence on that issue...which they may ignore. Plus, his speech, about the Clintons being out to get him, etc., was very partisan. So, if he does get confirmed, that puts a lying, partisan on the court..who also has sexual misconduct accusations floating around... None of that is good for SCOTUS, or the country. And both if things are more important than one person...
Just saw this on facebook, and thought it applied here:
Men ask why women are so pissed off. Even guys with wives and daughters. Jackson Katz, a prominent social researcher, illustrates why. He's done it with hundreds of audiences:
"I draw a line down the middle of a chalkboard, sketching a male symbol on one side and a female symbol on the other.
Then I ask just the men: What steps do you guys take, on a daily basis, to prevent yourselves from being sexually assaulted? At first there is a kind of awkward silence as the men try to figure out if they've been asked a trick question. The silence gives way to a smattering of nervous laughter. Occasionally, a young a guy will raise his hand and say, 'I stay out of prison.' This is typically followed by another moment of laughter, before someone finally raises his hand and soberly states, 'Nothing. I don't think about it.'
Then I ask the women the same question. What steps do you take on a daily basis to prevent yourselves from being sexually assaulted? Women throughout the audience immediately start raising their hands. As the men sit in stunned silence, the women recount safety precautions they take as part of their daily routine.
Hold my keys as a potential weapon. Look in the back seat of the car before getting in. Carry a cell phone. Don't go jogging at night. Lock all the windows when I sleep, even on hot summer nights. Be careful not to drink too much. Don't put my drink down and come back to it; make sure I see it being poured. Own a big dog. Carry Mace or pepper spray. Have an unlisted phone number. Have a man's voice on my answering machine. Park in well-lit areas. Don't use parking garages. Don't get on elevators with only one man, or with a group of men. Vary my route home from work. Watch what I wear. Don't use highway rest areas. Use a home alarm system. Don't wear headphones when jogging. Avoid forests or wooded areas, even in the daytime. Don't take a first-floor apartment. Go out in groups. Own a firearm. Meet men on first dates in public places. Make sure to have a car or cab fare. Don't make eye contact with men on the street. Make assertive eye contact with men on the street.”
― Jackson Katz, The Macho Paradox: Why Some Men Hurt Women and How All Men Can Help
Men ask why women are so pissed off. Even guys with wives and daughters. Jackson Katz, a prominent social researcher, illustrates why. He's done it with hundreds of audiences:
"I draw a line down the middle of a chalkboard, sketching a male symbol on one side and a female symbol on the other.
Then I ask just the men: What steps do you guys take, on a daily basis, to prevent yourselves from being sexually assaulted? At first there is a kind of awkward silence as the men try to figure out if they've been asked a trick question. The silence gives way to a smattering of nervous laughter. Occasionally, a young a guy will raise his hand and say, 'I stay out of prison.' This is typically followed by another moment of laughter, before someone finally raises his hand and soberly states, 'Nothing. I don't think about it.'
Then I ask the women the same question. What steps do you take on a daily basis to prevent yourselves from being sexually assaulted? Women throughout the audience immediately start raising their hands. As the men sit in stunned silence, the women recount safety precautions they take as part of their daily routine.
Hold my keys as a potential weapon. Look in the back seat of the car before getting in. Carry a cell phone. Don't go jogging at night. Lock all the windows when I sleep, even on hot summer nights. Be careful not to drink too much. Don't put my drink down and come back to it; make sure I see it being poured. Own a big dog. Carry Mace or pepper spray. Have an unlisted phone number. Have a man's voice on my answering machine. Park in well-lit areas. Don't use parking garages. Don't get on elevators with only one man, or with a group of men. Vary my route home from work. Watch what I wear. Don't use highway rest areas. Use a home alarm system. Don't wear headphones when jogging. Avoid forests or wooded areas, even in the daytime. Don't take a first-floor apartment. Go out in groups. Own a firearm. Meet men on first dates in public places. Make sure to have a car or cab fare. Don't make eye contact with men on the street. Make assertive eye contact with men on the street.”
― Jackson Katz, The Macho Paradox: Why Some Men Hurt Women and How All Men Can Help
1. I’m not a big fan of the whole guilty until proven innocent approach, but I want to point out that this is a glorified job interview and he is not entitled to “due process” here.
2. The women making the accusations are credible witnesses who have taken huge risks in coming forwards.
3. Who the hell has a character witness letter with 65 sign-offs “on hand” just in case? He knew this was possible and warned his handlers.
4. Where is the investigation into the suddenly disappearing debt and his perjury just testimony?
5. Any one out there really think he’s nonpartisan?
6. Merrick Garland. Turn about is fair play. This is what the GOP started and it’s set a tone of ever increasing escalation.
7. Are there really so few rapists in the GOP that they couldn’t have found a less controversial candidate?
8. Let’s hope he doesn’t get appointed until after the Gamble decision and that Trump can’t provide state level pardons in addition to federal ones.
2. The women making the accusations are credible witnesses who have taken huge risks in coming forwards.
3. Who the hell has a character witness letter with 65 sign-offs “on hand” just in case? He knew this was possible and warned his handlers.
4. Where is the investigation into the suddenly disappearing debt and his perjury just testimony?
5. Any one out there really think he’s nonpartisan?
6. Merrick Garland. Turn about is fair play. This is what the GOP started and it’s set a tone of ever increasing escalation.
7. Are there really so few rapists in the GOP that they couldn’t have found a less controversial candidate?
8. Let’s hope he doesn’t get appointed until after the Gamble decision and that Trump can’t provide state level pardons in addition to federal ones.
This is not a trial, this is a job interview. This is about finding out whether someone can handle pressure, about how he conducts himself. This is, “Something has been said about you and character matters in this job. Who are you? Share it with us.”
We should all be thankful that not only does this process happen but that it’s public.
Did he sexually assault her? I have no idea. But NOT being guilty of sexual assault does not make him the right man for this job and framing it that way would be a grievous mistake for this country.
We should all be thankful that not only does this process happen but that it’s public.
Did he sexually assault her? I have no idea. But NOT being guilty of sexual assault does not make him the right man for this job and framing it that way would be a grievous mistake for this country.
"Also on Wednesday, attorney Michael Avenatti tweeted a sworn declaration from D.C. resident Swetnick, claiming that in the early 1980s, Kavanaugh would “engage in abusive and physically aggressive behavior toward girls, including pressing girls against him without their consent, ‘grinding’ against girls and attempting to remove or shift girls’ clothing to expose private body parts. I likewise observed him be verbally abusive towards girls by making crude sexual comments to them that were designed to demean, humiliate and embarrass them…”
Swetnick also claimed that at house parties, Kavanaugh and his friend Mark Judge would target girls at parties and spike their drinks with drugs to coerce them sexually. “I have a firm recollection of seeing boys lined up outside rooms at many of these parties waiting for their ‘turn’ with a girl inside the room,” Swetnick said in the statement. “These boys included Mark Judge and Brett Kavanaugh.”
She also shared her own drugged rape at which Kavanaugh and Judge allegedly bore witness. “During the incident, I was incapacitated without my consent and unable to fight off the boys raping me. I believe I was drugged using Quaaludes or something similar placed in something I was drinking,” she said."
If this were true it would mean that she observed criminal behavior and not only did nothing about it but kept going to these parties. Now if anyone here were to observe this type of behavior, they would certainly call the police and try to stop it from happening. And I'd bet that no one here would continue to go to these parties and accept drinks that they have personally observed being doctored before.
Yet the media, and those gullible enough to blindly accept that being spoon-fed to them, will blithely say that because she is a woman she should be believed WITHOUT QUESTION.
Swetnick also claimed that at house parties, Kavanaugh and his friend Mark Judge would target girls at parties and spike their drinks with drugs to coerce them sexually. “I have a firm recollection of seeing boys lined up outside rooms at many of these parties waiting for their ‘turn’ with a girl inside the room,” Swetnick said in the statement. “These boys included Mark Judge and Brett Kavanaugh.”
She also shared her own drugged rape at which Kavanaugh and Judge allegedly bore witness. “During the incident, I was incapacitated without my consent and unable to fight off the boys raping me. I believe I was drugged using Quaaludes or something similar placed in something I was drinking,” she said."
If this were true it would mean that she observed criminal behavior and not only did nothing about it but kept going to these parties. Now if anyone here were to observe this type of behavior, they would certainly call the police and try to stop it from happening. And I'd bet that no one here would continue to go to these parties and accept drinks that they have personally observed being doctored before.
Yet the media, and those gullible enough to blindly accept that being spoon-fed to them, will blithely say that because she is a woman she should be believed WITHOUT QUESTION.
I’m going to say this last bit and then leave the thread alone.
They sure got one on us, didn’t they? They know how to divide us, put us at each others’ throats, make us fight over things, all of that. Both parties are guilty. Both parties play the politics of fear, hate, divisiveness, and then turn around and blame the other for doing it.
Americans are too divided. Too polarized. I’ll admit, I take the bait. I tend to get angry at things, get upset, I wonder if it’s only natural or if I’m just being hoodwinked. We need to stop it. We need to stop blaming men, women, blacks, Hispanics, gays, everything, for our problems. I don’t know how we do it, but this country needs some healing.
I’ll be the first to apologize to anyone on this thread who I’ve insulted or have been an ass to. The majority of people on this thread have been posting for years, and people who I believe are good. That’s all I got.
They sure got one on us, didn’t they? They know how to divide us, put us at each others’ throats, make us fight over things, all of that. Both parties are guilty. Both parties play the politics of fear, hate, divisiveness, and then turn around and blame the other for doing it.
Americans are too divided. Too polarized. I’ll admit, I take the bait. I tend to get angry at things, get upset, I wonder if it’s only natural or if I’m just being hoodwinked. We need to stop it. We need to stop blaming men, women, blacks, Hispanics, gays, everything, for our problems. I don’t know how we do it, but this country needs some healing.
I’ll be the first to apologize to anyone on this thread who I’ve insulted or have been an ass to. The majority of people on this thread have been posting for years, and people who I believe are good. That’s all I got.
Report from the interviewer:
https://imgur.com/a/YYhCaMV
https://imgur.com/a/YYhCaMV
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